There is very little out there about parents with ASD, there are many many articles around the "stress and pressures" of raising an autistic child and transitioning that child to adulthood. However many people don't see their autism as a negative thing, there are many positive factors of autism and indeed it can lead to particular career paths. The past view of autism as "low functioning" and "high functioning" are slowly being eradicated with the diagnosis being changed to ASD and getting rid of "Aspergers" diagnosis. However, many people, especially the medical profession and children's services see ASD as a "condition" or "illness" categorised by low functioning, sometimes mute individuals unable to sustain Independence, much less be parents.
The fact is that there are many wonderful parents out there who are ASD, many received an adult diagnosis of ASD due to the medical professionals blinkered view towards ASD and belief that you have to have significant "problems" such as being non verbal to gain an ASD diagnosis. This systemic abliesm is also partly behind the constant threats of FII against parents trying to get diagnosis for children who may not present as stereotypically autistic.
I undertook a self selecting survey in order to show the experiences of families with autistic parents and/or children when going through the Children's Services system. The results were predictably poor.
As we have seen repeatedly, many of those dealing with the sometimes horrific consequences of children's services intervention and monitoring came into the system by asking for help. Have yo had child services involvement? Yes asked for help 40.6% Yes referred by school 18.8% Yes referred by medical professional 12.5% Yes referred by someone else 28.1%